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What Is Your WHY?

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Below is a copy of a message I received on Facebook from a friend. The program she talks about is called “Mentoring For Free”.  Although I have been exposed to their teachings and to their program, I do not agree with some of their teachings. However, what they teach is truly beneficial for people who have not been in the field of Network Marketing for over thirty years as have I, so the information will probably be new to you.

The intense training that I received from International Leadership Development (now known as ILD Global) is the best training on this planet as far as I am concerned. In the absence of ILD, Mentoring for Free does have some value.

I don’t teach Mentoring for Free principles. What I teach comes from ILD training because the focus is on success in life and business by developing internal strength and growth that transcends business goals. In other words, ILD teachings develop characteristics in a person that provide balance in life.

I include Judy MacEachran’s message below for those of you who wish to contact her and receive Mentoring for Free Training. I approve of many of their teachings and believe you can benefit from their teaching and mine as well. Feel free to contact her and listen in on the call.

In addition, I include a video series for you to watch that emphasizes the idea of  knowing your WHY and having a strong desire.

My Story, Why I Said I Will Not Be Denied:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPD3IyZrwC8,

1-Revised, I Will Not Be Denied My Potential: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TRHi3KwFmJY

2-I Will Not Be Denied My Destiny, Staying Positive: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qzk6kLZxzcY

Judy MacEachran sent a message to the members of The Business Cafe.

Judy MacEachranMay 29, 2010 at 5:18pm

Subject: A Very Special Call on Memorial Day?

Hello, My Networking Friends!

WHY are you in network marketing? What is your WHY?  Is your WHY big enough to make you cry?

Your WHY is never about the money. And it is NEVER EVER about proving something to anyone else!
Your WHY has got to be about YOU…

Every day in this business we face obstacles that make us want to quit. And some people are born to quit.
We can’t fix them – that’s what they do. Those people never ever had a WHY.

I am not a quitter. But 3 years ago I was ready to quit. I had no clear WHY, and was very frustrated.

And then I met Michael Dlouhy. Michael taught me:

“Your real WHY is about who YOU really are. Your driving factor must be WAY more than money. Your WHY
should make you CRY!”

Do you want to OWN your life? Then you NEED to get an ALL encompassing, BURNING DESIRE to have what you
want.

If you don’t have your WHY, you’ll never have the DESIRE. They work hand in hand. If you don’t have a strong enough WHY you don’t have anything.

On Monday, Memorial Day, we will have a special training call. Michael is going to devote the entire call to DESIRE.

If you have never heard Michael’s brilliant word pictures and stories, you are in for a real treat.

More important, he will use those stories to drive home the vital importance of your WHY, and to show you the power of what YOU can do when you get YOUR all encompassing desire working in YOUR life.

I hope you will join us on Monday, May 31 at 3:00 P.M. Eastern time.

To listen to this F*REE training call, just e mail me at judy.maceachran@gmail.com with “Your WHY” in the subject line. I will give you the call number.

I look forward to hearing from you!

To YOUR success,

Judy MacEachran
603-228-1944
Skype: judy.maceachran

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May
2010
Time: 22:46

Confidence Comes From Preparation

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Judy MacEachran

 May 25, 2010 at 6:44am

Subject: Your Daily Motivation

THE SECRET TO CONFIDENCE IS PREPARATION

With practice you’ll come to a point of competence. You’ll find yourself accomplishing your goals gracefully and confidently.

It’s then that you’ll do things that you never dreamed you could do. You’ll discover powers you never knew existed. If you’re prepared, you’re able to feel confident.

There can be no great courage when there is no confidence or assurance. Half the battle is in the conviction that you can accomplish what you undertake.

Confidence doesn’t come out of nowhere. It’s the result of constant work and dedication.

To Your Success,
Judy MacEachran

© 2010 http://www.facebook.com/l/99cee;YourDailyMotivation.com



 

How does this message resonate with you? Does it help you feel more confident about achieving your goals when you know that you are prepared for a presentation or an interview?


Experience helps us posses more confidence in the work we do. This makes our efforts more focused and successful because people naturally gravitate to those who are confident.


Confidence means we have an air of knowledge and understanding that emanates from inside us. It is our experience and knowledge that attracts people to us and makes them want to listen to what we say. Without that attraction, we will actually repel people from us.


Those who do not take the time to educate themselves about their products or services try to cover up that fact by pretending they know. Sometimes this effort works, depending on how charismatic a sales person is and the perception level of the client, yet most of the time people see through the falsehood even though the salesman thinks he is impressing them. Having a false air of confidence actually repels people when they figure it out.


Some people in sales think they cannot admit they don’t know something because it will cause clients to lose respect for them and so they try to “wing it”. However, would it not be wiser to admit they do not know the answer to that question but will find out and get back to them? What makes people lose respect is being manipulated and lied to or conned. They know when one is not being honest about what he or she knows and will respond negatively to the insult.


The reason sales people are NOT trusted is because usually they are committed to selling the pitch, and they don’t tell the truth when they should. The way to win confidence with clients is to show them that we are willing to learn, willing to be teachable, and willing to lead by example. Leading by example means doing the same things they teach. This earns respect and loyalty from clients and cause people to follow them. People follow a person because they know he or she cares about having integrity in personal and business dealings.


I appreciate what Judy MacEachran pointed out in her statement above. She said: “You’ll discover powers you never knew existed. If you’re prepared, you’re able to feel confident…There can be no great courage when there is no confidence or assurance. Half the battle is in the conviction that you can accomplish what you undertake.”


The point that half the battle is in the conviction that we know what we know from preparation, planning, education and experience. Nothing else will attract to us the things we want and are important to us.


You do n0t need to know everything before you start talking to people, but you do need to have a good understanding of what you are telling people. If you don’t know something, it is perfectly appropriate to say that you don’t know but that you will find out the answer. Finding the answer will give you more confidence in answering that question the next time.


The point is to be transparent and truthful in your personal and business dealings. Do not engage in sales pitches and key phrases, it just turns off people and makes them not want to trust you. The right thing to do is know the facts about your business, educate yourself so you know what you are talking about, and then confidence will attract the rewards you seek.


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May
2010
Time: 4:15

Let Us Remember Our Military

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LET US REMEMBER AS WE PLAY THIS WEEKEND THAT THE REASON FOR THIS HOLIDAY IS TO REMEMBER THOSE WHO SERVE IN THE MILITARY. THEY ARE THERE TO PROVIDE SECURITY AND TO PROTECT OUR WAY OF LIFE. WITHOUT THEM, WE WOULD NOT HAVE THE BLESSINGS WE ENJOY IN LIVING IN THIS COUNTRY.


MOST IMPORTANTLY, REMEMBER THOSE WHO HAVE DIED IN YEARS PAST TO GIVE THIS NATION OUR FREEDOM AND THE GIFT OF FREEDOM TODAY. WITHOUT THEM, WE COULD STILL BE UNDER THE RULE OF ENGLAND OR UNDER THE CONTROL OF NATIONS LIKE JAPAN OR GERMANY. . . OR ANY OTHER NATION THAT WE HAVE BEEN AT WAR WITH TO MAINTAIN OUR WAY OF LIFE. I FOR ONE, FEEL BLESSED. THANK YOU!

Do not stand at my grave and weep…

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow;
I am the softly falling snow.


I am the gentle showers of rain;
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush;
I am in the graceful rush.


Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.


I am the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there.

Remember those soldiers on Memorial Day…

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May
2010
Time: 2:32

Proof That My Techniques Work

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TECHNIQUES THAT WORK

Some of what business coaches teach today are nothing more than just theory, with concepts never tested in the real world.

Rest assured that the techniques I present are personally applied and their efficacy proven through experience. I know these principles work because of my own successes and by the feedback I get from others who have done what I teach them. I have no doubt these techniques can change your life as well as they have mine.

WHY YOU NEED MY HELP

• What I teach may be in condradiction to what your Network Marketing trainers teach. There is a reason for that, so let me explain. What most Network Marketers teach is based on outdated standards. What worked when Network Marketing was hot years ago, does not work well now. In the early days of Multi-Level Marketing, people used the new standards of “word of mouth” to sell products and services. Of course, “Word of Mouth” is the best way to sell, but now it needs something behind the words that convinces people they won’t be scammed.

With the Internet being the vehicle for selling products and services now, it is easier for people to be scammed so you have to work harder to assure people that what you tell them is true and that what they get is going to work for them. You need to know about SEO (Search Engine Optimization), Key Words, writing blogs and ads, splash pages with contact information, and much more.

• You need to keep your mind focused squarely on obtaining only those things in your business that hold the most meaning and importance to you in life. These are the type of gems you should be putting in your Life’s Treasure Box. No success can be enjoyed if you have not put in these things first.

Unfortunately, many Network Marketing business trainers give the impression that success is based on money in the bank, nice clothing, nice vehicles and a home, and collecting material things. This is not true success. Anyone can do this if they sacrafice enough. What is much harder to do is to build a successful business by first collecting the treasure in life. I am talking about building relationships with people and giving them value. Would you rather do business with someone you know and can trust or would you want to take a chance on someone you know nothing about?

• What you choose to put in your Life’s Treasure Box will become your greatest asset for achieving real success in life and business, and for having peace in difficult situations. This is one of the most important lessons for any of us to learn. Where do you learn these principles? Does you current business trainer teach you these success principles? Likely, they focus on making money, sponsoring, and convincing people to buy your products and services.  I was privileged in being taught how to live a successful life as well as building a successful business. As a result, I teach these same principles.

• My job is to provide you the very assets you need to survive the challenges you will face in life and business. Your job is to take what I teach, ponder on how it applies to you, and then put it in to practice. I find that many people don’t want to apply these principles because they want to move quickly in their businesses. They don’t want to take the time necessary to build a strong foundation and let it cure long enough to support what they create.  Because they are in a hurry, they won’t use the correct building blocks that won’t be blown over when the first strong wind comes into their business…as it always does. And then they wonder why they did not succeed and blame everyone but themselves!

• What I teach is not the ordinary. What I present to you is  a message of hope for you who feel frustrated by the trials of life and lack of successes that you hoped to achieve. I know you must be doubting your ability to ever be successful in business and to have the blessings in life that you and your family have dreamed of obtaining.  Now you crave success and those things in life you desire more than ever before. Let me help you with these desires.

• You may feel like something is missing or is not exactly right in your life right now. I know why you feel that way. Allow me to help you develop the foundation and building blocks you need to obtain the most precious desires of your heart.

• You may already realize that, until now, your usual way of doing business is not working as well you would like. Perhaps the reason you are not getting the result you want is because of the way you currently advertise your business is not attracting the people who want what you offer in your business. I can help you with this problem.

• You might be blaming the unfortunate events in your life as being  the reason for your circumstances. You can choose to do that, but the truth is we can always find a way to build a successful business during hard times. Regardless of circumstances, and if we know how, with commitment we can change our circumstances to be more positive and more as we desire. The difference is using techniques that work, doing the right things, and being willing to change what you are used to doing. We don’t like to change what we are used to, I know that, but resisting won’t change your circumstances will it?

Here’s Proof that what I teach works! Notice that I am not showing you how much money I make. Money is the bi-product of doing the right things. You can’t sell things and make money if you can’t draw people to you.  What you see is that I am successful at drawing people to me that want what I offer. They come to me without me having to solicit them.

If you want to see these type of numbers to your sites, then we need to talk. Contact email Judith@JudithSherman.com or call 903-487-2989 and leave a message. I will call you back. In case you don’t hear from me as soon as you would like, leave another message and tell me you have called before or send an email marked urgent.

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May
2010
Time: 1:34

Copier Security Risk

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Business people often make copies, but if you don’t own your own fax and copier you need to watch this video from CBS about copiers. Think about this report next time you decide to make a copy.

http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=6412572n&tag=contentMain;contentBody

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May
2010
Time: 0:20

Special Message About Life

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moments quote Inspiration

Do you find this message true for you? I have found it true for me. It’s true! Your character is manifested in life’s challenges and you may not become the person you really want to be.

Money is a challenge for some people, especially when they make it their God. My brother finally recognized that the more he chases after money the less he receives. Instead of money being attracted to him, it seems to repeal. Does this sound familiar to you?

Friends, money, relationships, love are all attracted toward you when you become the person you want to be and understand the principle described above. How have you been handling those moments in your life? What have you become? Is it the person you want to be or have you become someone you don’t like very much?

Do you have something you want to change? Do you know how? How can I help you?

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May
2010
Time: 19:22

I Have This Great Opportunity For You

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You may not agree on every point discussed in this post. However, I am confident that once situations begin to reveal the symptoms of a problem within an organization, you will recognize the red flags as they emerge and see things from a different perspective. Naturally, in the future, you will want to teach these principles to your own downline and associates.

How Great of an Opportunity is It?

Often, a desire to change our lives lulls us into an opportunity that only lines the pockets of somebody else. This happens because there are experts in the field who know how to capitalize on your dreams, and they know how to present their programs so it appeals to you. They have you pegged the minute they begin talking to you and so they know what tools to use in manipulating you.

It’s true that sometimes an opportunity is as good as it appears, and yet other times an opportunity is a bad risk and you should not become involved with it. You have to weed through all the hype associated with the plan and scrutinize what they tell you in order to find the truth.

First, I must qualify myself. I’ve seen many people do well in their Network Marketing businesses. I’ve also seen many more who have not done well. I, myself, have done very well in some ventures and others I have not done as well as I expected. Nevertheless, I joined each venture believing that I would succeed and that it would be the best opportunity.

With that said, even when we are committed to the success of our businesses, it still may not work for us; possibly because there are holes in the plan that we did not see in the beginning (usually the holes are found in their terms and conditions). This is why we need to take the time we need to investigate an opportunity enough to know the truth or accept the risk. If we accept the risk, then what about the people we involve in the risk with us? We owe it to them to be sure that they will not be taken for a ride along with us that they were not prepared to take.

Take the Time To Investigate

The reason family and friends won’t join us in most of our ventures is because they know that we do not investigate opportunities well enough and so we get taken for a ride. Therefore, they won’t listen when we try to talk to them; they don’t trust us to know if this one is a good opportunity or not.

I’ve learned that, if we are unsure about the worthiness of an opportunity, we need to take some time to investigate it more thoroughly before we make a decision. Look at an opportunity with objectivity. This means we are less likely to be taken in by all the fluff and hype they use to rev-up a group or a crowd. However, if the promoter tries to apply pressure on us, it’s time to tell them goodbye. There is a reason for the pressure, and usually it is NOT for our best interest.

A mistake many of us make is we perceive a good followup as being pressure to join. We need to be honest when they call so they do not followup at a pace that makes us feel uncomfortable. We can resolve this problem by agreeing to attend their meetings for awhile and then make a decision.

Attending all their functions will acquaint us with the Association and the upline with whom we will be working closely. This is the only way we will find out who is making real money and who is putting on a front. Take note of how hard people are working and if they are running themselves ragged but seeing little payoff for it. My friend says this is like an airplane running down the tarmac and not having enough lift to take off.

Attending their meetings is a good way to find holes in the plan and learn more about the integrity of their organization. After awhile, they will no longer see us as an investigator but as part of the group; that is when the walls come down and we see the true integrity in their business dealings.

What’s the Gimmick or The Ploy That Hooks You?

I am going to get personal with you here because I want to be very candid about the pitfalls in Network Marketing—even the good ones.

Network Marketing is the best tool available today for average people to get into business and change their stars. Although there are many bad opportunities, there are still some that are reputable and have a viable business plan. With use of the Internet now, there are even greater opportunities to do well if one will follow sound principles when working it.

Below is a list of the gimmicks and ploys I’ve discovered that hook us into an opportunity…be it a good or a bad one. Perhaps some of you found many of these examples are true and can attest to what I’m telling you.

1 – Experts Look For Your WOW! The promoter’s objective is to get you to start dreaming or to wake up the passion inside you about your dreams. You need to have a reason for doing what they want you to do. They are looking for your trigger so they can capitalize on it. This doesn’t mean that everyone who taps into your dream has sinister motives. It just means they know you won’t do anything without having a reason. Your WOW is your motivation and, without it, you’re dead in the water before you even get started.

After a good promoter spends time finding your reason for taking advantage of their opportunity or building on your dreams, they spend time convincing you that you can do it. On the surface, there is nothing sinister about these motives. It is the wise thing to do, and this is what makes Network Marketing work for people.

Being suspicious of someone getting you to dream is not necessary in most cases; it’s part of the training so you can succeed. Talking with you about your dreams and ambitions gives them an opportunity to ask important questions that you need to consider and gives you a chance to look inside yourself to answer them.

It is completely appropriate, however, to be suspicious about their claims and the plan they promote. An honest promoter will tell you exactly what it takes to succeed in their business without resorting to a bunch of hype to sell you on their plan.

2 – You need to watch out for holes in the plan.

*Does the plan make sense?

*Are products too expensive for most people?

*What is the upfront cost to join?

*Where does that money go when you join? Some companies give part of your signup money to philanthropic organizations. You need to know the percentage and how much really goes out to those organizations.

*How are products being moved?

*How much product do you need to move to produce the volume from which they base each level of income shown in their presentation?

*If income is not based on moving products, then what actually makes you money?

*What is the risk? FTC laws say the opportunity MUST be the same for everyone, from top to bottom. If it isn’t, then it is a pyramid and likely a scam—which means that, most often, it will be shut down within the first year or so.

3 – NEVER JOIN an opportunity when you have to buy into a position: either by purchasing a certain amount of stock to reach leadership levels or they reserve a spot for you to buy a downline. If they bought a downline, then they don’t really know how to help you because they have not had to do what they are requiring of you. The promoter will tell you that this is the fast way to make money, and in some cases it could be true. However, I am telling you that this is NOT TRUE in most other situations and for most people! Let me explain why, because this is really the final straw that broke my own business.

Buy UP to a level:

When your income depends on monthly volume, it means your profit is dependent on products moving within your group. Stocking up on products is like shooting yourself in the foot.

For instance, you sell product “A” to someone (to an associate or a customer) so that product needs to be replaced (ordered) for it to count as volume for the current month. If you have the product in stock, you won’t make a purchase until the stock is low or gone. Without new volume going through your business every month, the money you need to restock is usually spent by the time you need to reorder. Also, you will likely do what many Network Marketers do in this situation—you bank on the fact that enough money will be there when it’s time to restock product “A”.

Do you see the error in this type of thinking? You are spending money today by banking on money being there tomorrow. You have faith or a belief that your business will grow and that you will have more than enough money to restock products then. In principle, it makes sense; in reality, it makes NO sense to stock up on products in order to buy up to a new level.

YOU MUST NOT BANK ON SPENDING “TOMORROW’S MONEY” TODAY, THINKING THE MONEY WILL BE THERE WHEN YOU NEED IT! If you break this Universal Law of Money, there will always be a consequence that follows. Even if the money is there when you need it, did you have to sacrifice something to make sure that enough money is in the account? Is that sacrifice your consequence?

If you need volume for a specific level, it means you and your downline must create it through movement of products. You do not create new volume unless you sell something and then order it for that volume to count in the current month. If you buy up or accept autoship (read this representatives experience with autoship), you will likely have a charge on your account that you can’t pay and so you will be cancelled.

Sponsoring new people moves products, but not enough to move you up several levels in volume. The way many opportunities work today is they require you to have a standing order every month by requiring you to have a product shipped to you every month or you will not qualify for a bonus from downline production (it’s called autoship) and your upline may get it instead.

If your downline buys products for themselves and their customers, along with the volume you create, and the total volume gives you enough for a new level, then all is well and everyone is happy. However, what if some of your downline decide to stock up on products as you did and they buy up to a level also?

Remember, your downline will duplicate you and usually that is a good thing. The problem with this plan is that now they have stock and you have stock. None of you will restock until products are gone or low enough to reorder. This system will work fine IF you and your downline work very hard to move the products you stocked up on and IF you can order new stock in the month you need new volume.

4 - Your contact list gives your upline names and phone numbers of everyone you know, which he or she can use as contacts after you drop out. Most new signups give up too quickly because they think the opportunity is a fast fix for their money problems or because they expect cash to come rolling in before they have given it enough time to expect that outcome. When people quit or are cancelled because of an unpaid charge, the upline scoops up the downline. Then the company sells the name

Sometimes upline will take ownership of your contacts and start communicating with them behind your back. Even if the upline has good motives, this does not edify you as the sponsor and diminishes your position with your new signup and your group. Some of them even sell your name as being interested in network marketing.

Your upline SHOULD ALWAYS work through you when there is ANY CONTACT with people on your list. This mistake is one I made in the beginning with my own business. I never did gain back the respect and trust of my downline after that mistake.

Keep in mind that your upline is doing this for a reason. Either he or she is looking out for his or her own interests, or he or she doesn’t trust you to handle your own prospects correctly. If your upline is doing this to you, then ask yourself why? Also, ask yourself if what your upline communicates to you and your downline makes sense and is it in agreement with sound principles? If not, then why and what do you plan to do about it?

Greed Is A Motivator

A devious marketer will try to appeal to the GREED inside every human being. We all want a good deal, and we all want to get something for nothing or for very little effort on our part. We know this is true when we think or hear ourselves say: I only have to do this much and I will get this much money for it. Do you see it?

In contrast, an honest marketer will spell out the plan, it’s weaknesses and strong points, and commit you to working the plan the way they know it works best. The plan will include a specific amount of effort in order to receive a certain amount of reward. Any plan that tries to say otherwise is a lie. All Network Marketers who have made it up the ladder know exactly what it takes to get there. Either they purchased downline to reach their level or they made it with hard work. You need to know exactly what hard work it will take.

DON’T make the mistake of basing your success on the success of those who are talking to you. You are not them and your circumstances are different. Your commitment level and work ethics are different. Your contacts and financial situation is different. Although all of this is true and very important to consider, you still look for holes in the plan that people want to hide. You need to understand the true success of those who want you to join them in the opportunity.

If you are seriously considering an opportunity, you must be bold and discuss these points with the person who wants you to do this plan. If the person is new, then don’t depend on them to give you the answer, go straight to the “horses mouth” and find out for yourself.

For example, you need answers to the following questions.

*How many clients do I need to see in order to get the volume you show in the plan?

*Is your success level based on the same compensation plan and the same presentation as they just showed me or did you buy your business from someone?

*How many “no” responses do you get compared to “yes”?

*What must I do every day towards reaching the levels that you describe?

*Tell the upline that you recognize your success cannot be based on others, but there is a figure required by law for them to disclose that tells you how many people actually make the levels discussed in the plan they showed you. Be sure to see their their terms of agreement. If it’s a long terms of agreement than run. The shorter their terms the more transparent they are.

If you set guidelines for yourself and follow them, you will be less likely to get mixed up in a “sinking ship” or a scam. Scammers depend on your vulnerability and greed. Protect yourself by understanding what red flags signal a scam. If it doesn’t ring true then tell them “NO THANKS”.

Good examples of red flags:

*Network Marketing companies that are ground floor opportunities or in pre-launch (pre-launch means they could be having financial problems so they plan on their reps to bring in the income because they don’t have financial backing)

*The Newest Book on the market on How to Become a Millionaire

*And the newest deal that’s almost too good to be true.

These are all questionable opportunities.

If you have questions about this article, I will be glad to respond to an email.

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May
2010
Time: 23:14

Parental Abuse Support Line

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Safe in Gods Hands Support Line

Date:
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Time:
9:00pm – 11:00pm
Location:
712-432-3900 pin #647-495

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The rise of parent abuse has many parents feeling too ashamed to get the help they need. If your teen is violent, don’t minimize the problem. Face it head on.

Perhaps the biggest obstacles to overcoming parent abuse are shame and blame. If your teen is violent (hitting, threatening, intimidating, name-calling, shoving, etc.) it’s tough to even think about getting help because acknowledging or naming the problem is painful.

To make matters worse, once parents that are suffering abuse find the courage to reach out they often do not find the help they need. Instead they find blame; “this is your fault because you are a bad parent.”

It is no wonder that parent abuse – an increasingly common problem – is not often talked about or adequately addressed.

If you are suffering abuse at the hands of your son or daughter, please know this:

You are not alone again. Although the problem isn’t often talked about, it does exist and it is increasingly common. Blaming is not the answer or even a useful response to the problem.

Please join this support line this next week. Even if you are not being abused yourself, you may know someone who is being abused and you can learn how to help her.

If you have a story that you would like to share with our readers, please feel free to share it with us. Tell everyone you know about this superb support group.

I know this beautiful woman who is putting on this group help line and I know the trouble she has been through. I attest with assurance that she is genuine and knows what she is talking about. I know she can help you. If you plan to attend, please send me an email and I will pass on the confirmation. I have already confirmed my attendance.

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<div>Thursday, May 13, 2010</div></td>
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<div>9:00pm – 11:00pm</div></td>
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<div>712-432-3900 pin #647-495</div></td>
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<h2>DESCRIPTION</h2>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>The rise of parent abuse has many parents feeling too ashamed to get the help they need. If your teen is violent, don’t minimize the problem. Face it head on.</span>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>Perhaps the biggest obstacles to overcoming parent abuse are shame and blame. If your teen is violent (hitting, threatening, intimidating, name-calling, shoving, etc.) it’s tough to even think about getting help because acknowledging or naming the problem is painful.</span>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>To make matters worse, once parents that are suffering abuse find the courage to reach out they often do not find the help they need. Instead they find blame; “this is your fault because you are a bad parent.”</span>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>It is no wonder that parent abuse – an increasingly common problem – is not often talked about or adequately addressed.</span>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>If you are suffering abuse at the hands of your son or daughter, please know this:
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<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>You are not alone again. Although the problem isn’t often talked about, it does exist and it is increasingly common. Blaming is not the answer or even a useful response to the problem.</span>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>Please join the support line this next week. Even if you are not being abused yourself, you may know someone who is being abused and you can learn how to help her.</span>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>If you have a story that you would like to share with our readers, please feel free to share it with us. Tell everyone you know about this superb support group. </span>
<span style=”font-family: verdana; font-size: small;”>I know this beautiful woman who is putting on this group help line and I know the trouble she has been through. I attest with assurance that she is genuine and knows what she is talking about. I know she can help you. If you plan to attend, please send me an email and I will pass on the confirmation. I have already confirmed my attendance. </span>
<div id=”_mcePaste” style=”position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 565px; width: 1px; height: 1px;”>The rise of parent abuse has many parents feeling too ashamed to get the help they need. If your teen is violent, don’t minimize the problem. Face it head on.</div>
<div id=”_mcePaste” style=”position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 565px; width: 1px; height: 1px;”>Perhaps the biggest obstacles to overcoming parent abuse are shame and blame. If your teen is violent (hitting, threatening, intimidating, name-calling, shoving, etc.) it’s tough to even think about getting help because acknowledging or naming the problem is painful.</div>
<span style=”font-family: verdana;”><span style=”font-size: x-small;”><em> <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/blame/”>blame</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/courage/”>courage</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/daughter/”>daughter</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/face-the-problem/”>face the problem</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/feeling-ashamed/”>feeling ashamed</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/get-help/”>get help</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/increasingly-common-problem/”>increasingly common problem</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/need-help/”>need help</a>,<a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/parent-abuse/”>parent abuse</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/rise-in-parental-abuse/”>rise in parental abuse</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/son/”>son</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/support-line/”>support line</a>, <a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/violent-teen/”>violent teen</a>,<a style=”text-decoration: none; color: #666666; font-style: normal;” rel=”tag” href=”http://en.wordpress.com/tag/you-not-at-fault/”>you not at fault</a></em> </span></span>
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May
2010
Time: 23:11

AARP Message To Most Americans

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Pitfalls Of Payday Lending


I received this important message from AARP that is of interest to most Americans these days. These people are just legal loan sharks. Your chances of coming out on the positive end of such a loan is non-existent. That’s why they risk lending to you. You pay for the risk they take and for those who do not pay back the loan.

With the economy still sluggish and many folks still struggling, there’s one booming industry that’s been taking advantage of many Texans. Our Texas page of April’s AARP Bulletin took a closer look one man’s experience with predatory payday loans:

He had never walked into a payday loan shop, but Cleveland Lomas thought it was the right move: It would help him pay off his car and build up good credit in the process.

Instead, Lomas ended up paying $1,300 on a $500 loan as interest and fees mounted and he couldn’t keep up. He swore it was the first and only time he’d visit a payday lender.

“It’s a complete rip-off,” said Lomas, 34, of San Antonio. “They take advantage of people like me, who don’t really understand all that fine print about interest rates.”

Lomas stopped by the AARP Texas booth at a recent event that kicked off a statewide campaign called “500% Interest Is Wrong” urging cities and towns to pass resolutions calling for stricter regulation of payday lenders.

Read the rest of the story in the article, “Payday Loan Shops Exploit a Loophole”.

Know someone who’s been impacted by predatory payday or auto title lenders? Or have you had a personal experience with these incredibly high interest loans? Let us hear about it. Your story will make a difference. Let your voice be heard!

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May
2010
Time: 15:22